deanvo:

Whoever you’re telling that too, I’m sure they know. But what’re you trying to get out of that? I’m sure they wouldn’t know how to answer. It’s a self esteem killer, and makes it even more difficult to continue a conversation. Asking them why they’re quiet is like asking, “Why were you born this way?” That’s just how they are, so next time, keep it to yourself. Everyone is different; let them adjust to you at their own pace.